When people do things that seem to make life harder. It is possible to see that as a preparation for the future, things that have been hard in the past often made what came later easier, did they not. How about considering the way Salinger views the world, where you can assume people are plotting and behaving in ways that will bring you the most long term happiness and success. When you look at it that way and learn and grow from things other people might assume are setbacks, it really is a self ratifying belief and way better.
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